In a world that often seems cold and indifferent, hugs and kisses stand as simple yet profound expressions of love, affection, and care. They are gestures that transcend language and culture, connecting us on a deeply human level. The exact origin of the term “XOXO” is uncertain, but it is thought to have originated from the practice of using “X” to represent a kiss in medieval times. The “O” is thought to have been added later, possibly as a way … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
❤️ Navigating the complexities of life, I find myself reflecting on the blessed gift of a little more acceptance. Acceptance, in its purest form, is simply embracing reality without judgment or resistance. It’s about acknowledging the world as it is, without trying to force it to conform to our expectations. 🌎 In a world that often celebrates perfection and conformity, acceptance can be a radical act of self-love and compassion. It’s about recognizing our own imperfections and embracing them as … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
I love Sundays. Sunday mornings would often see our family off to church or spending it with family. As noted, Sundays are often seen as a day of rest, rejuvenation and relaxation, and there is no better way to spend a beautiful Sunday than to enjoy the simple things in life. Here are a few ideas for how to make your next Sunday truly special: Wake up early and watch the sunrise. There is something truly magical about watching the … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
More and more we’re rediscovering the importance of family as COVID takes it’s toll. Consider the following scenarios—you argued with your sister three years ago and haven’t spoken since. It’s been a rough three years, but now you don’t know how to break the ice and fix what went wrong between you. Or maybe your children moved out and somehow drifted out of your life. You miss them and don’t know how to reconnect without sounding like you’re nagging. Conflict … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
I can’t even tell you how many people I come across who say, “I’m a failure”. “I don’t have it”. “I suck”. Life sucks. The rich get richer, the poor get poorer. Every single year, I get poor. I’m stuck. These people are not low IQ individuals. There’s nothing in their appearance that should make them seem like they are inferior in any way. Instead, it’s their attitude that dooms them to a life of mediocrity, struggle, and frustration. If … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
I know there are those who “hate” Christmas because of the shopping, the money, the inordinate overflow of traffic, the “tacky” decorations, and some even hate the music. Additionally, there are those that suggest we cancel Christmas. It seems that every year for the last few years I have gotten ill with some form of sinus challenge and all of its resulting coughing, fatigue, sleeplessness and so on. However, I have given little thought to it previously. Therefore, when asked … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
Have you ever ignored that “still small voice”? Particularly when it wasn’t so “still” or “small”? I have. Today my dreams had taken me to events like – teaching someone to sing and they do great but I’m just doing the lead line of a barbershop tag, When I leave the World Behind. The lead part is “be-hind”; yep that’s it. Everyone else does the “cool” stuff. Then I’m back in HS and it’s the last day of my Senior … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
Many of us spend too much time feeling guilty. Guilt can trap us in our tracks and stop the process of our emotional growth. Have you ever been on the treadmill and couldn’t get off because it was going too fast? That’s exactly what guilt is like. And this unhealthy guilt accomplishes nothing positive. That is what I am learning first hand. It presses us down into our problems rather than lifting us out of them. Guilt is an emotional … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
Peanuts to be exact 🙂 As one year draws to a close and the new year fast approaches with a sense of excitement we reflect on the accomplishments of the year and review our so-called “wins” and “losses” (our goals and objectives). To you the reader today I hope you realize these three points there is no such thing as a “loss” how much you have won how blessed you are This little email that circulates at least once a … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
It’s Christmas Eve – just after noon to be exact and I’m home doing Saturday chores, watching Christmas movies and reflecting. I’ve been here 61 Christmases to be exact 🙂 and a lot has transpired over time. I’ve learned to let go of regret and look at the experiences that were less than desirable as lessons since they are part of who I am…and I like myself 🙂 While I could was rhapsodic on topics in a dozen different directions … [CLICK TO READ MORE]
